Wednesday, 28 December 2011

relationships and the Equal Money System

Professor Dew looked at responses from about 2,800 couples surveyed in 1987 by the National Survey of Families and Households. In this survey, both husbands and wives were asked, separately, about how often they disagreed with their spouse over chores, in-laws, spending time together, sex and money. These same respondents were then contacted again several years later, in 1992, and asked if they were still married.
Of all these common things couples fight about, money disputes were the best harbingers of divorce. For wives, disagreements over finances and sex were good predictors of divorce, but finance disputes were much stronger predictors. For husbands, financial disagreements were the only type of common disagreement that predicted whether they would get a divorce.

In the above article, we can clearly see that the divorce rate is increasing mainly because of money or lack of money. Couples find it hard to be in a situation where money is a deprivation and that leads to a lot of factors that cause the relationship to end fast, eg low self esteem, depression, lack of intimacy etc.

At this rate, our future generations will be brought up in broken households where in general the mother will be the caregiver. Those that are single mum will agree that it is a challenge to bring up a child and keep up with other things such as work and activities.

With an equal money system, people will not have to chase after money via jobs as the basics will be provided. Wouldn't that be cool to be able to spend more time with your kids and watch them grow as opposed to spending time making money just to bring them up?

With a new system where money will not be an issue, people will not be arguing needlessly about money. Since more time can be spared, people can  use that time to enjoy other things in life such as intimacy, which seems to be crucial in a relationship.
Lack of good sex and lack of money are 2 major ingredients that are root causes of divorce. Lack of money does entice lack of sex so we need to promote a system where people will have time to do those things they live as opposed to doing something they hate but have to due to financial gains.

Please consider joining us in our quest to promote the equal money system.

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